Sexual energy has always been and continues to be the single most driving force in my life. It has provided me with continuous source of happiness, balance, and well-being. The physical, mental, and emotional pleasure that sexual energy provides me with is a pleasure that I have never yet found an equal for. I have always felt my oneness with the universe through my sexual energy. Through sexual energy I create the world I desire to experience.

In 1996, after 25 years as a professional ballroom dancer, I decided to hang up my dance shoes, close my dance schools, and reluctantly end a 15 year long marriage to my wife and dance partner.

To have connected my mind and body through the art of dance was truly a gift to me this lifetime but the greater gift in my dance education was learning about man/woman relationships.

Actually my professional dance career, which began shortly after college, began less as an artistic pursuit and more as an opportunity to pursue the many beautiful female dancers that graced the dance floor. Being a straight Latin male in a highly populated gay male environment at that time certainly increased my optimism of being a successful Casanova.

With my college music education and having been somewhat of an athlete during my early youth, it would not be difficult to learn and eventually teach ballroom dancing for a living. As I had hoped, I soon enjoyed perhaps every young man’s testosterone-guided dream – to be a successful happy go lucky playboy with an abundant amount of women to make love to. I never dreamed at the time, that my career as a dancer would blossom into me being a World and United States champion.

Naturally it took having a larger goal with my dancing and a commitment to my dance partner’s well being. So I got married to a girl named Bonnie and we became champions!

Our marriage was not an easy one. We had no handbook on marriage, had many different needs and wants, and were both somewhat uncompromising in accommodating them.
But we were united by our common goal to become dance champions and were willing to stick with it out no matter what it took.To have somewhat mastered the art of moving as a beautiful body consciously and effortlessly through time and space was a task in itself. But the real blood, sweat, and tears, came in learning how to be in partnership with my wife and dance partner. My greatest lessons about relationships in life were to be learned through the art of ballroom dancing. Shortly after our retirement from professional competing, we mutually decided to dissolve our marriage. divorce. Despite our eventual , we are still today committed to one another’s welfare and well being.These lessons learnt nearly 10 years ago still form today the basic philosophies of Sexy Spirits.As my dance career drew to a close, I made the decision to leave the dance world completely and find new avenues of growth. Having being profoundly influenced by Alexander Technique during my dance training, and intrigued by a book entitled, “The Tao of Health, Sex, and Longevity” by Daniel P. Reid, I began looking into the field of wholistic health with a focus on sexual energy cultivation. I think deep down I wanted to live forever and grow into a healthy, happy, sexy old man.

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